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Jan 10, 2008 8:43:17 GMT -5
Post by Mel on Jan 10, 2008 8:43:17 GMT -5
So yeah, I had one. It sucked. They told me it would hurt so I opted for being put under.... Bad idea... It costs over $3,000 to do!!! I couldn't believe it! I only have to pay $2,000 of it cause my insurance decided to play nice. All I know is that if it comes down to having to do it again... then I don't know what I'll do.
I had to have one, cause my body wasn't giving up the fight to keep the baby. But the baby was gone for awhile... Which made it all the worst for me. You know this is the first time I'm telling anyone outside my family and close friends this? Its weird, but I guess much better than a month ago.
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Jan 10, 2008 13:07:39 GMT -5
Post by [ash <3] on Jan 10, 2008 13:07:39 GMT -5
Well, I've never had one. I do know that when you are trying and get your heart set on it and find out no, then it hurts so much. That's the one thing that I'm scared of. Not being able to be a mom or getting pregnant and then something like this happening.
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Jan 15, 2008 7:42:06 GMT -5
Post by Mel on Jan 15, 2008 7:42:06 GMT -5
Its not a matter of being scared. You just need to be able to hold yourself together and know that God knows whats best. You need to be able to go into it knowing you might not end up with a baby. 90% of womens 1st pregnancies are miscarriages. When you acknowledge that you might be one of the 90%, only then are you truely ready to be pregnant. Though you may be one of the 10% who don't! Its just a matter of you. I've come to learn this.
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Jan 15, 2008 13:16:59 GMT -5
Post by [ash <3] on Jan 15, 2008 13:16:59 GMT -5
Wow. Then I know a lot of women in that ten percent margin.
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Jan 15, 2008 13:19:23 GMT -5
Post by Mel on Jan 15, 2008 13:19:23 GMT -5
Some women don't know they've miscarried
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Jan 16, 2008 13:34:32 GMT -5
Post by FroggyChk on Jan 16, 2008 13:34:32 GMT -5
I know it was hard Mel. And you also must realize that it can happen again. I got lucky that it only happend once to me this time, but next time? But I wish you plenty of baby dust!! And hope you enjoy your sleep now, 'cause I think Paul is teething:( Loves
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Jan 16, 2008 16:19:26 GMT -5
Post by Angie on Jan 16, 2008 16:19:26 GMT -5
Yeah when I think about my 1st pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. I never really thought about how common it was. I just thought I had really bad luck.
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